How We Met

Some love stories begin with grand gestures, but theirs started with something much simpler — gaming, a shared slice of carrot cake, and a Castle Lite.

After meeting online and spending countless hours gaming together, the couple finally decided it was time to meet in person at Cuppacino's, Wonderboom Junction. Mianke ordered carrot cake. Stefano ordered a Castle Lite. Despite the red flags Mianke suspected might come with that choice, they enjoyed each other's company so much that they met again the very next day — this time at a park in Annlin for the ultimate test of approval: Mianke's dog, Robbie.

Stefano arrived with a plan. Armed with a brand-new toy and treats for Robbie, he made a sly move — and it worked. Robbie gave him his full, undivided support.

Mianke had her own clever move. She arrived with three trays of Stefano's favourite dessert, carefully packed in freezable containers. Who would have guessed that a dog toy and a peppermint crisp tart could spark the beginning of an unforgettable love story?

The rest, as they say, is history.

Our Journey

June 2023

First Meeting

The couple enjoyed gaming together, and chatted for hours on end on Discord. What started as a shared love of gaming quickly became something more.

July 2023

First Date

At Cuppacino’s, Wonderboom Junction — for carrot cake and a questionable Castle Lite. Despite Mianke’s initial red flags about Stefano’s drink choice, they enjoyed each other’s company so much that they met again the very next day.

September 2023

Making It Official

Just before Stefano left for the Netherlands, after a fun night of karaoke and perhaps one too many drinks, he revealed a secret — he’d been quietly practicing Can’t Help Falling in Love by Elvis on the ukulele. As he played and sang for Mianke, he asked her out, and she was completely swept off her feet.

July 2024

Big News

While Mianke watched Stefano’s flat and kitties during a hunting weekend with his dad, Stefano told his father he wanted to marry Mianke. Meanwhile, Mianke said “Say no more, bestie,” and welcomed him back with a surprise positive pregnancy test.

August 2024

Moving In Together

They took the next big step and moved in together, building the foundation for their little family.

March 2025

The Greatest Gift

Marno was born, and their lives changed forever. They now knew what true love meant, and their family was complete.

January 2026

The Proposal

He popped the question, and of course she said yes!

22 August 2026

The Wedding

We cannot wait to celebrate our love with all of you on this special day!

The Proposal

Yes, after 86 years of wedding planning, Stefano finally popped the question. Mianke came home to candles and flowers, where Stefano surprised her by performing their song on the ukulele — one he'd been secretly practicing. He got down on one knee and, in a beautifully emotional moment, asked her to marry him.

Of course, she said yes.

Did You Know?

About Stefano

  • Has traveled to 7 countries, collecting stories, memories, and a healthy appreciation for good food along the way
  • Favorite hobbies include gaming and washing his new bakkie, because nothing says relaxation like a clean vehicle and a good game with friends
  • Plays the ukulele surprisingly well, despite firmly denying this fact whenever it's mentioned
  • Fully believes the moon landing was real, a stance he stands by with confidence and zero conspiracy theories
  • Dreamed of becoming a professional rugby player growing up, and still carries that love for the game to this day

About Mianke

  • Was a co-host on a radio show called Ons Generasie in high school
  • Studied Agriculture and animal health
  • Not good at first person shooter games but enjoys being the self-proclaimed team captain and raging at team members while having zero kills on the board
  • Once featured on a TV show called Begin Sing, but failed miserably in the competition
  • Has an immense fear of frogs